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Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Monday, August 29, 2011

Debating

Thinking of keeping the girls blog private. I think it kind of creeps me out not knowing who views this blog since it's a free for all. On the settings it lets me know who read this and what post they read. I have a lot of people reading that I don't know or people who I have no idea how they even know i have a blog. The intent for this blog was to keep something special for my girls. Not to sure I like the thought of everybody reading it. If your reading then comment on the post so I know who is reading and can save those people and block out others. The Internet world is creepy. I think maybe this should just be a blog for my girls too read one day. I don't know. Definitely debating.

Monday, August 22, 2011

Check-ups

Those of you who know me, know I am not a fan of vaccinations. You know that I have worked in the field of Autism for so long that I have a strong point of view on vaccinations. I hate them. I know they are needed but I hate them. My girls have always been on an alternate vaccination schedule.

DR. SEARS ALTERNATIVE VACCINE SCHEDULE
He says his alternative schedule won't overwhelm young immune systems, but it still provides complete vaccine protection.

2 months
Rota virus
D Tap

3 months
PCV
Hib

4 months
Rota virus (second dose)
D Tap (second dose)

5 months
PCV (second dose)
Hib (second dose)

6 months
Rota virus (third dose)
D Tap (third dose)

7 months
PCV (third dose)
Hib (third dose)

9 months
Polio
Influenza (and given every year until at least 19 years old)

12 months
Polio (second dose)
Mumps (separated from MMR)  updated: 3 in one so my girls will get it at 3 years old

15 months
PCV (fourth dose)
Hib (fourth dose)

18 months
D Tap (fourth dose)
Varicella

2 years
Rubella (separated from MMRupdated: 3 in one so my girls will get it at 3 years old
Polio (third dose)

2 1/2 years
Hep B
Hep A

3 1/2 years
Hep B (second dose)
Measles (separated from MMRupdated: 3 in one so my girls will get it at 3 years old

4 years
DTaP (fifth dose)
Polio (fourth dose)

5 years
MMR (second dose of each vaccine)

6 years
Varicella (second dose)

12 years
HPV

12 years, 2 months
HPV (second dose)

13 years

HPV (third dose)
MCV4


Many parents I have worked with have speculated that vaccines over loaded their child's system when their immune system was low and contributed to their autism diagnosis. I held off on the MMR shot until Syniah was 3 years of  age. I am a strong believer of this  "We take into account that some children have reactions to medicines like penicillin, for example, yet when it comes to vaccines we are operating as if our kids have a universal tolerance for them. We are acting like ONE SIZE FITS ALL. That is, at the very least, a huge improbability. Even if the CDC is not convinced of a link between vaccines and autism, changing the vaccine schedule should be seriously considered as a precautionary measure.I think so many people have their different opinions but this is what works for my girls. I am not against all vaccines, but 'I do believe there is strong evidence to suggest that some of the ingredients may be hazardous and that our children are being given too many, too soon!' I quote Jenny McCarthy who is an Autism activist and experienced first hand what the harm that vaccines caused her child. I this it's better to be safe than sorry.

Today the girls went in for their  full physicals.

 Niah took a vision test 
PASSED....THANK GOD! (So far has Mama's vision)

Syniah weighed 31lbs 50 percentile for weight and 75 percentile in height (We may have a tall and skinny girl.)
Leilah weighed in at 25lbs. 50 percentile for both height and weight.  (Leilah is petite. Short for her age)




They were so excited to see the doctor.


Made me realize how big they are getting.

They were so happy they had no idea about getting shots.

Blood Pressure checked



Ear checked

Tummy checked

 As always we have the doctor trying to catch them up on all their vaccines. 7 or 8 shots? ummmmmmmmmm no! So both girls got two shots. Niah got the MMR today. I was up in the air about it but she is 3 and developing perfectly so I felt it was time. My heart doesn't feel completely at peace with her getting that shot. The one shot  parents that I worked for warned me about since before I was even a Mom. I really just have to leave it in God's hands that from here he will protect her.


 The girls did great. Niah had a few tears but was such a big girl. Leilah cried for a second and then started laughing I think she was confused as how to feel. My big girls. So proud of their visit. I thank God for giving me such healthy and happy girls.



Saturday, August 20, 2011

Their eyes

The first time I held each of my girls the first thing I noticed was their eyes. Huge eyes! Niah and Leilah would look like identical twins if it weren't for their eyes. They are both huge but Niah's are huge and round and Leilah's are huge and almond shaped. It's the first thing people notice about them when we are out. 

"She has such big eyes."  "What beautiful eyes she has." "Wow, look at her eyes."


They are beautiful eyes aren't they?

These  beautiful eyes are also the eyes that can give the dirtiest looks. Niah is starting to roll her eyes and Leilah doesn't have to say a word when she is mad.......her eyes speak millions. Wonder if I will be in love with these eyes in their teenage years? 

Friday, August 19, 2011

A day at the beach with the German's

German Baby number 5 will be here in a few weeks so we are trying to get in as much time together as possible. Tanya and I thought what better way than our favorite spot as kids.
Dana Point.

The pictures pretty much speak for themself.

Play


The kids had a blast


This was the very first time Leilah played on her own without hanging on me and was totally independent.



Playing more as the sunset



Best Friends: Leilah and Luke

Such a fun dinner roasting hot dogs by the fire and listening to the waves in the ocean.

Yummy


 Can't end a night at the beach without smores!


Niah is such a big girl now. She made her very own smores all by herself.




Such a great day and evening. I absolutely thank God every time I think of Tanya. I couldn't ask for a better family to raise my kids around, a Best friend to share these moments with and Nina to love my girls. I hope baby German #5 doesn't mind all the chaos when the Mendez and German kids get together I am sure he/she will fit right in.